Girls don’t understand how often this hurts guys. Especially if the guy has feelings for the girl. I have been told this countless of times and truth is it sucks, BAD. It makes us guys feel like something is wrong with us, that we didn’t do something right causing us to doubt ourself.
Most of the females that have told me this were talking to/dating a guy who treated them like crap. Always toyed with their emotions because they can and it pissed me off while I told them this and their only response would be “You’re right.” If you know I’m right then why would you continue something that does not make you happy?
The number 1 excuse I hear is “I love him.” REALLY? If so ask yourself this. “Does he love me?” If he loves you than why is he treating you like crap? In order to love someone you must show you care for them, not when it’s convenient for him because he wants something.
Somewhere near the end of the conversation will the words finally appear, “I wish there were more guys like you.” Thats the dagger. You have this person that you wish for right in front of you and you’re dumb enough to wish for a clone with different physical features.
It makes perfect sense to me. I’m a nice guy but it’s not what you’re looking for so you decide to try and find it in someone else who you think you there’s a chance you can change. Somehow his personality will be attractive like him right? He’ll be your prince in shining armor.
News Flash: You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to change and armor rust when he decides that he doesnt need it to impress you because he stopped fighting for you.